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Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Don't take offense,friends.

Let me just put it short & clear here.
No matter what kinda situation it is, I will NOT help my friends and most probably second degree friends whom I know too, to ever..ever,ever look for jobs as long as I still stay in this profession.

It is not that I am declaring my selfishness out loud but fuck it, I had enough.
On one hand, I am trying to protect my friends' interest and tried my best to do what I can in my limits, letting them have priorty in jobs, having better than usual candidates.
On the other hand, I have my fucking limits as a consultant and if I haven't look at the point we are friends, I would show you what's business, mean business.

I too,hate it when they were at one point keep asking, " Eh..how huh?! Got job or not?" That job could be just for themselves and sometimes even their friends and kins! Like I bloodly owe them some fucking jobs! Just because I am a recruitment consultant, I am your friend, I don't happen to owe you anything. Not you, not your friends, not your family,not your neighbour!!

I seriously would love to help my friends and their friends (and we somewhat will be friends too) if I can but sometimes that is a mistake.
You heard of how friends shouldn't work together?(Ok...technically Fyn & I were colleagues then friends) That's the whole deal.

I have no wish to repeat this kinda incident again & I hope I wont hear any of you asking if I have jobs for your friends especially.
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I hate it when he* used to message me in the lines of "Help my friends to keep a lookout for jobs,ok? No need to be stress over it...haha."
FUCK!
Sigh..but I did help most of his friends to look for a job then.
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You have no idea who I am at work and I wish you won't get to know who I am at work.
I dont wish to end up trying to protect my friends and be answerable to my managers then.
Let's leave it at here.

This post is REALLY not posting in specific to anyone. It is just finally a conclusion that I've come to after these years.
So whatever that you know of, you just don't ever bring this matter up again.

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